Values.  It’s all about values.

In an effort to be introspective instead of political  ( I hope ! ) I raise the question about individual situations over the past eight years , remembering that each party had its time in power.

As a non-partisan, moderate, independent voter,  I find this particular Presidential election to be filled with defenses….. and  ” what ifs “…..and issues that have little or nothing to do with life in a small Southern town.  I would like a little relevancy.

And , yes, I am cognizant of the impact of national decisions and the downhill effect of some of them.  But I am not schooled in the ” whys and wherefores ” and , therefore, must depend on the powers-that-be.  Hence, my reasoning about my one vote.

When discussing the state of our nation and the upcoming election, someone  close to me very wisely said,  ” I simply ignore what I cannot control.  I have one vote and one vote only.  I will not allow my life to be turned upside down by things that are far removed from me ” .

And so I say :  ignore the advertisements  ( there seems to be no truth there anymore ) , ignore the ” talking heads ”  ( whose opinions are handed down as facts too often ) , ignore social media ( where reality gets confused with fiction ) . Take a break from things far removed   —-and then—-take a deep breath and THINK !

Some things to consider :

…..do the talking points at the national level have a real effect on what I value ?

…..what are the measurable changes in my life when the party in power changes ?

…..does the candidate dictate my vote or does the agenda ?

…..what are my personal expectations for the next four years ?

…..why do I allow myself to be influenced by ideas/opinions that really have no bearing on my values ?

I am the first to know—-and believe—that it is not an easy choice.  There are too many pieces, too many contradictions, too many issues.  It can be overwhelming indeed.

But———–I will attempt to think for myself.  I will seek the facts.  I will dismiss issues that I have no control over.  But at the forefront, and always, I hope, I will make my vote a vote of values.

AND I WILL VOTE  !

And then the day after the election, regardless of the winner, my life will continue as usual : time with Byron, touching base with some family members, maybe a game of bridge, maybe a meeting at the church, maybe a hospital board gathering…….

Just making my point.  Life goes on.